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 As we navigate the complexities of the world, let's remember that sometimes, the most profound wisdom is hidden in the unprocessed moments of life. 'Raw Honey' is a blog collection that spotlights the beauty of unfiltered human connection. I aim to share unscripted moments that unfold in daily conversations. I've found that through questions, we are led to heart-to-heart conversations and a deeper understanding of one another. I firmly believe that these authentic exchanges with our closest loved ones hold the power to bring emotional and spiritual contentment. It is within this sacred space of deeper connection that we can find solace in the divine presence of God, Christ, and the Holy Spirit, uncovering the sweetness that resides within ourselves and each other.

 On today’s RAW HONEY:

Finding Quiet Beauty Amidst Loss: A Conversation Between Friends

In the quiet corners of our hearts, we often discover profound beauty amidst the deepest pain. This month marks a significant milestone for me – a decade since Brad's absence. Vangi, a dear friend, offers a perspective that challenges the ordinary understanding of grief.

Vangi: “Oh my goodness...how time has marched on, its feet relentlessly treading on the memories we hold so dear. Do you find that you have distilled a quiet beauty from the pain of your loss?”

Bridgett: “That's a thought-provoking perspective on grief. Have I distilled a quiet beauty from the pain of my loss? Yes, I believe I have. Without that loss, I might never have discovered the profound beauty that can emerge from the intense pain of separation from love.

However, I admit I may not fully appreciate this pain in the present moment. My hope is that as I grow closer to understanding God and gain a more comprehensive perspective on how God made the world to work, I will find more peace—a cooling after the intense heat that purifies. I trust that when this life ends and I transition to be with God I will gain a complete understanding. I don't think the full extent of this quiet beauty can be realized in this life.

I miss having a “person” to share the everyday moments with. I miss Brad during the kids' teenage years—the years we eagerly anticipated, along with the joy of becoming grandparents. Perhaps one day, I will be blessed with love again. It won't be the same, as I won't have created three incredible humans with that person. Still, I hope to find some solace in having someone by my side, sharing life's burdens, and experiencing the reciprocity that comes with a loving relationship. That's what I miss the most—the back-and-forth connection with another. You can find that in friendships too. And at times with grown children and parents. It doesn’t happen often I think.

Until I reach the fullness of peace, there are moments when I feel like I'm hanging on the edge of a skyscraper. When panic sets in, I seek ways to numb the pain of loss. Yet, there are times when I realize that the skyscraper I'm holding onto is God, and in those moments, I find peace. It may depend on where my gaze is directed—78 floors down or towards the endless blue and white sky above.

Thank you for that question. It gave me direction for today. I have felt zapped of direction. Too many possibilities of things to do and I never know exactly where to start.”

In the midst of this candid conversation I was reminded that within life's trials and heartaches, there lies a quiet beauty, a profound understanding of the human spirit's resilience and the capacity to find solace in connection, be it in friendship, family, or faith. Loss may leave us teetering on the edge, but it's in those moments of connection that we discover Christ's strength within.